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Spring 2007 Newsletter

TABLE OF CONTENTS:

President's Message
A Wonderful Success
Learning To Parent: Primate Tales
Invigorate Your Retirement Assets By Owning Your Own Office
Kids Corner - The Dollhouse
Let's Say Welcome To Our New Board Members
Four Year Reflection
Thank You!

Bulletin Board

Strategic Planning

 

President's Message

LOOKING FORWARD TO 2007 - 2008
Moving from "Good to Great"

It is a great privilege and a great responsibility to serve as the President of the Arizona Division of AAMFT.  I look forward to working with our Board of Directors, Committees, Volunteers and as many of our members as possible over the next two years.  Alan Asher, our past president, has set a formidable example for me and has also paved the way to making my job much easier.  We now have a working Strategic Plan in place.  This will be the guide that provides the direction we take and the goals that we plan to accomplish.

In moving our organization from “good to great” – according to “7 Measures of Success – What Remarkable Associations Do That Others Don’t”, the most important assets that we have are our members and our mission.  “Members and mission are at the heart of remarkable associations - and member value is the blood that keeps the heart pumping”.

The 7 measures are:

  1. A Customer Service Culture
  2. Alignment of Products and Services with Mission
  3. Data-Driven Strategies
  4. Dialogue and Engagement
  5. CEO as a Broker of Ideas
  6. Organizational Adaptability
  7. Alliance Building

As your president I am committed to these principles.

During my tenure as President, I will be looking at the needs and opinions of all our members - Affiliate, Associate, Student and Clinical – for guidance and direction.  I hope to hear from you and will be asking for your involvement, depending on your interests and availability.  We have already had an impressive response at our first Board retreat which was open to all interested members.  I believe that it was a tremendous success.  It was impressive that 10% of our members were involved!  If we can repeat this process next year, it would be remarkable to have 20% of our members attend.  (We worked very hard and also had a very good time!)

A good deal of our energy has been (and will continue to be) directed at legislative advocacy.  Arizona’s Board of Behavioral Health Examiners is still in its infancy and will probably progress gradually and cautiously to full maturity, with the help and involvement of the Behavioral Health Professions.  We will need to be patient and persistent as we work together to accomplish what is going to be in the best interests of our chosen profession.  We will also need to put efforts into providing supervision for those graduates entering the field and seeking licensure.  The Strategic Planning Committee will keep you informed as the goals and objectives continue to evolve.

The following are the goals that have been developed by the Strategic Planning Committee which has been meeting on alternate months for the past two years.

Goal 1     To ensure the continued growth of the profession of Marriage and Family Therapy in the state of Arizona

Goal 2     To increase the public’s awareness of the specialty of Marriage and Family Therapy

Goal 3     To become efficient administratively in order to more effectively carry out the goals and mission of the organization

Goal 4     Recruitment and retention of AAMFT Membership

During the retreat, I had hoped we might have found time to name the goals, rather than use the goal numbers.  Instead, I invite you to think of creative and descriptive names for each goal that we can use as its title.  (Please email me your suggestions.)

Michael Bowers, Executive Director of AAMFT and facilitator of our retreat, challenged us to come up with a phrase that would describe our purpose as an organization – something that could be a “tag line” for our letterhead – like a logo.  Here are some of the ideas that were tossed around off the “top of our heads”:

                “AzAMFT – Because Relationships Matter”

“Specialists in building professional development and community awareness of relational therapy”

“Helping to insure that everyone counts”

“Supporting activity that promotes the education and practice of Marriage and Family Therapy in Arizona”

“Educate, encourage, enable members and the community to the highest standards”

So, please, if you are so inclined, send in your best (and even crazy) ideas for our “motto”……so that we can use it on our stationary, website, newsletter and other public relations endeavors.  I look forward to hearing from you.

-Frances Bernfeld, Presiden

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A WONDERFUL SUCCESS!

 AzAMFT RETREAT FOR THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS, COMMITTEE CHAIRS AND COMMITTEE MEMBERS, AND MEMBERS AT LARGE

January 11 and 12, 2007
Mountain Park Community Church
Presenter, Michael Bowers, Executive Director, AAMFT

Thirty hard working and dedicated members of AzAMFT (Clinical, Associate, Affiliate and Student Members) convened for the retreat dedicated to establishing priorities and objectives for the application of our organization’s goals and strategic plan for 2007.  Some of our group members were long time old timers and some were new to AAMFT and new to our division.  It was an honor to have Michael Bowers, the Executive Director of AAMFT, as our presenter.  Michael raised difficult questions about the future of our profession and how we will manage to navigate the ever changing “River of Culture” in our specialized field. 

After much discussion and deliberation in small groups and together in the large group, along with expert guidance from our presenter, we came up with a critical area that needs immediate attention.  The outcome of our labors was the realization that if we do not provide work settings in which our students can practice under AAMFT supervision to meet the requirements of licensure, then we are not providing a vital service to our graduates, nor will there be a future generation to practice in our profession.  In addition, it was recognized that an exploration of changes in the regulations of the Board of Behavioral Health Examiners and the Arizona State Statutes would have to take place in order to facilitate a new generation of Marriage and Family Therapists to become licensed and practice in the State of Arizona.

Our Board Treasurer, Laura Barnhart, took careful notes from the final proceedings, which represents the commitments of the participants to move forward with a plan to accomplish the following from the current strategic plan:

Goal I: To ensure the continued growth of the profession of Marriage and Family Therapy in Arizona

Anyone interested in participating, please contact the committee chairperson or those mentioned in their identified responsibilities below.

Objective: Job development to enable new graduates to complete their training and obtain the hours required for licensure.

Strategy:

                1.   Agency

Key Events

Responsibility

Target Date

Resource Requirements

Develop a list of agencies which employ LMFTs.

Katie Keuth will develop a list for Phoenix. 

Nancy Rybski will develop a list for Tucson.

3/31/07

Phone, email

Ongoing support group for students, associates and those seeking reciprocity.

 

Fran Harris and Ryan

3/31/07

Convenient location

* * Supervisor locator for interns and employees.

To be determined

TBA

Research want ads, on line job sites.

* * Ideally this information would be available on the AzAMFT web site.  There should be an employment page with links to applications and agencies.  This information would also appear in the newsletter.  AAMFT has a job connection service on the web site and only one job in Arizona was posted last year. Other information on this site would include updates about changes in licensure requirements in understandable terms.  Michael Bowers suggested having a frequently asked questions section on our website.

                2.  Private Practice

Key Events

Responsibility

Target Date

Resource Requirements

Develop a handbook/manual for private practitioners outlining the structure, forms, liability issues and office space requirements for supervising interns.

A committee has been formed and Renee Frost is the chairperson.

TBA

Find out who is already doing this and how they are doing it.  Katie Keuth offered the committee a table at the Spring Conference.

 

                3.  Statute/Rules and Regulations

Key Events

Responsibility

Target Date

Resource Requirements

Advocacy for efficient bureaucratic response from BBHE.  AzAMFT will send a letter outlining the request.

Steve LeGendre and Dan Wright

TBA      

None

Request BBHE to develop a list of non MFT supervisors who have been approved.  This request will be made in the form of a letter.

Steve LeGendre

TBA

None

Rule change: 50% of MFT supervision can be provided by other behavioral health professionals.  Assess rule process and make recommendation to the BBHE.

TBA

TBA

Review rule process

Applicants for licensure will be able to submit a request for approval/denial of MFT exempt supervisors before application of the license.

Steve LeGendre and Frances Bernfeld

TBA

Review rule process

The retreat was a very exciting beginning for the work that lies ahead in 2007.  We have many other tasks and objectives to accomplish according to our ambitious Strategic Plan.  You will be informed of our progress and needs on a regular basis via the newsletter, the website and occasional emails.  Please contact the Strategic Planning Committee with any suggestions you may have regarding the direction we are taking. 

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LEARNING TO PARENT: PRIMATE TALES

By Harriet J. Smith

“On a lazy summer afternoon, Joe, a ten-year-old male cottontop tamarin, stretched out in the shade of the peach tree in his outdoor cage.  His four-month-old daughter, Rosie, toddled down the thirty-foot runway to the chihuahua-sized doggy door entrance to her air-conditioned indoor cage.  The flap on the doggy door is easy for an adult tamarin to master:  lift it up, duck under, and hop inside.  Rosie attempted to lift the flap many times, but was not strong enough.  The runway was in full sun on a 100+ degree day.  Rosie began to utter soft distress cries as she hopped about in front of the doggy door.  Joe stood up and stretched, abandoned his shady perch, and ambled down the runway toward Rosie.  He lifted the flap, she hopped inside, and he meandered back down the runway to the peach tree” (from Smith, Parenting for Primates, 2006, page 68). 

What does parenting in cottontop tamarin monkeys have to do with parenting in humans?  More than you might imagine.  As therapists, we conceptualize issues our clients raise in the context of their current family, their family of origin, and in some cases, even a generation or two further back.  In my book, Parenting for Primates, I ventured back in time even further, to explore the evolution of parenting in human and nonhuman primates.  Looking at how our closest living relatives, the monkeys and apes, parent their young and comparing their parenting behaviors with those of human parents reveals the natural history of parenting in primates.

While the primate recipe for mothering is very similar among nonhuman primates, traditional human societies, and modern human societies, the behavior of fathers is extraordinarily variable.  In most species of nonhuman primates, mothers live in small-to-large groups of unmated males and females and function as single parents, perhaps with a little help from female friends and relatives.  In many of these species, the primary contribution by fathers is their sperm.  But even when fathers are not much involved in childcare, they have grown up in a normal social group and have had the opportunity to observe females caring for youngsters.  In these species when a weaned infant loses its mother, it is typically a male who comes to the rescue (in gorillas, Barbary macaques, rhesus macaques, and savannah baboons, to name a few).  This makes sense because females are taking care of their own young and are thus unable to take on the care of orphans.  So even when male primates are not used to caring for young, they are able to step in when needed and do an adequate job of nurturing young.

Paternal behavior in primates serves one of three essential functions.  In those species in which fathers have a significant role in parenting, their foremost task is to protect their offspring from harm (whether the danger is from predators or from other adult males who might desire to kill an infant in order to mate with its mother).  Less commonly, in a relatively small number of species most of which practice monogamy, fathers provide care for infants and older youngsters throughout their childhood.  The third function of primate fathers, found only among humans, is the provision of resources.

Among nonhuman primates who live in mixed groups of males and females, paternal behavior varies from interested and playful protector (gorillas) to completely uninvolved onlooker (squirrel monkeys).  While examples of very involved fathers are rare among nonhuman primates, they are the rule among a few, small-sized, monogamous species of monkeys who live in Central and South America, the marmosets and tamarins.

Marmosets and tamarins are tiny monkeys (less than two pounds) which regularly give birth to twins which are quite large relative to the size of their mother.  They are the only nonhuman primates in which multiple births are the norm.  Evolutionary biologists believe that fathers in these species are intimately involved with childcare because they HAVE to be–it would be impossible for a female marmoset or tamarin to carry, feed, and protect twins without help from others.  Because the diet these species prefer requires that they live in small groups and defend a territory against others of their species, marmosets and tamarins live in nuclear families, are monogamous, and fiercely protect their territories from would-be intruders.  So the only helper a mother can initially turn to is her mate, although later on, older offspring are called into service to help babysit their younger siblings.

How do marmoset and tamarin fathers behave compared to males in species which do not practice monogamy?  Just like mothers, only more so.  Mothers are responsible for nursing the twins, and the effort required to provide milk for two rapidly-growing infants is about all mothers can muster.  Fathers carry the infants, protect them, keep them clean, and as they grow up, play with them and even allow youngsters to snatch food from them.  There is no question that these primary care-giving fathers will do their share; if they refuse to contribute what nature requires, their babies will die along with the fathers’ chances of passing their genes into the next generation.

Do fathers in these species have a paternal instinct which guides their performance as fathers?  Not hardly.  In raising cottontop tamarins for almost thirty years, I learned that neither mothers nor fathers had an inkling of what an infant was, much less how to take care of it, if they hadn’t grown up in a normal family group and helped care for younger siblings.  My breeding pairs were orphaned at birth and raised by me, rather than by a normal tamarin family.  As adults, these inexperienced parents appeared fearful of their newborns; they rejected and sometimes inadvertently killed their offspring in their attempt to dislodge clinging infants from their bodies.  I devised a parent-training program for inexperienced and abusive tamarin parents, and after many years, all tamarin parents in my colony were able to master the demands of parenthood.

There are two morals to this story.  The first is that when it takes two parents to raise young, both parents are capable of developing adequate parental behavior.  In modern monogamous human societies with two working parents, when both mother and father (or a paid substitute, like a nanny) are involved, the outcome for children is enhanced.  Second, the ability to provide adequate parental care in primates is not instinctive–not in monkeys, apes, or humans.  Rather, for both mothers and fathers to be good parents, early observation and experience crucially affects outcome.  This is useful to know when a new mother tearfully shares that she is fearful of her infant or that she seems to have no maternal instinct, or when a father announces that his wife seems to automatically know how to take care of their new baby while he is all thumbs.  Competent parenting takes experience and practice in all primates.  Humans without this experience can enroll in parenting classes, ask to be mentored by an experienced friend or relative, or avail themselves of the rich literature on parenting.

Topics covered in Parenting for Primates are the parenting behaviors of mothers and fathers, the role of babysitters, how parenting changes as offspring mature, how parenting varies with number of spouses (monogamy vs. polygamy), successful single parenting, and abuse and neglect by primate parents.

About the Author:  Harriet J. Smith is a clinical psychologist and has been in private practice in Arizona for over twenty years.  She earned her Ph.D. in comparative psychology from the University of Arizona in 1977 and began her career as a primatologist.  She maintained a captive breeding colony of cottontop tamarins, one of the most endangered primary species in South America for nearly thirty years.  She retrained in clinical psychology at George Washington University in the early 1980’s.  Parenting for Primates is published by Harvard University Press, 2006.

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INVIGORATE YOUR RETIREMENT ASSETS BY OWNING YOUR OWN OFFICE

By Nadia Cole-Potter

If you are in private practice, you have already taken a major step toward financial independence, now and for your retirement – by becoming the owner of a business.  Most likely you have set up some kind of retirement savings, perhaps a Simplified Employee Pension Plan Individual Retirement Account (SEP IRA).  Perhaps you rolled over the 401-K plan from your former employer into an IRA or Roth IRA and are making annual contributions to it.   But did you know that there is one other significant move you may be able to make, outside your IRA or any other retirement fund, that may significantly increase the wealth you accumulate toward your retirement?  No, it’s not a hot stock tip or a get rich scheme.  It’s an important business decision which you may want to consider.

I am betting that you now lease your office space.  Most professionals – doctors, attorneys, accountants, dentists, psychotherapists, insurance agents, Realtors® – lease.  They, and probably you, in effect, are paying their landlord’s mortgage – increasing their landlord’s ownership interest in the building (wealth), giving their landlord an income stream, and helping their landlord to realize the incredible tax benefits of owning income-producing real estate.   Until recently, it was unlikely that even the most high earning of these professionals owned their office space – mostly because, in order to own, they would have had to buy an entire office complex – and they, like you, even if they had it, needed the money for the start-up costs of private practice and didn’t want to be in the landlord business.

Now there is an affordable way to turn your lease payments into wealth-building payments and have most of your wealth-building payments paid for by someone else.  Here is how it works:

  1. Much of the new office space is built as office condominiums.  Other existing office space is being converted to office condominiums.  That means that you can purchase as little as 800 sq. ft. or as much as 24,000 sq. ft. of office space, depending on the needs of your practice.
  2. Office condos, like houses or residential condos, can be purchased with mortgages.  Just like owning your home, you can “leverage” your ownership (own the whole thing with a down payment and monthly payments).
  3. The office space you own, if large enough, could be shared with others who pay you rent for the privilege.  You are now the landlord.  Their rent covers a portion or even all of your office mortgage, property taxes, insurance, maintenance, condominium fees, and the cost of furniture, fixtures and enhancements. 
  4. Best of all, you have just stepped into the wonderful world of income property ownership:

a.                    The value of the office you own increases yearly.  Your payments, if correctly structured, remain the same – or increase as your earnings increase.  In either event, your tenants’ leases are structured at inception to increase yearly, assuring you of cash flow (your money to keep or invest) that will likely increase over the years.

b.                   If you sell your office upon retirement, you will realize 100% of the increase in its value, even if you initially paid only a percentage of it (through your down payment).  Think about it:  if you buy stock, you buy 100% of the value of the stock and any increase is a percentage of the entire value of the stock.  If you buy income-producing real estate, any increase is a percentage of the entire value of the property – but your rate of return on your investment is multiplied because you have only paid for a portion of it out of pocket.  The rest of the payments are covered wholly or partially by the rent you receive from those who share your office.

c.                    The interest you pay on your mortgage is tax-deductible.  Your tenants are paying all or part of that interest (in their lease payments) and you get to deduct it!

d.                   A portion of the entire initial purchase price of the property must be depreciated each year.  This is an income tax deduction which may be more than you could deduct if you deducted the amount of principal that you pay in your mortgage payments each year.  Even if you get an interest-only loan, you can still deduct depreciation!

e.                    Taxes, insurance, maintenance, and condo fees are all tax deductible.

f.                     FF&E (furniture, fixtures and enhancements) are depreciable.

  1. Best of all, when it comes time for you to retire, you can:

a.                    Sell the office condo (which your office tenants have paid for in your behalf);

b.                   Keep the office condo, rent out the space you previously used, and continue to receive income for as long as you like;

c.                    Sell/Exchange the office for a property of equal or greater value tax free which may provide you with even more income;

d.                   Sell/Exchange the office for a property (or portion of a property) held by a private-placement Real Estate Investment Trust or in a Tenant in Common scheme, providing you with income (and the continued benefits of owning real estate) from property you do not have to manage – also tax free;

e.                    Borrow on the equity you have built up in the property to buy other income-producing properties;

f.                     Pledge the equity you have built up in the property to buy other income-producing properties.

  1. Finally, should there come a time you need to get your money out of the condo but don’t want to move your practice, you can sell the office condo to an investor in the form of a sale-leaseback.  That is, a sale which guarantees you the right to stay in the same place as a tenant, and to continue to run your practice the same as before.  It’s a double win for you – you get your cash out of the building and you may still have an income stream from your tenants.  They become your sub-tenants, and their sub-lease payments then help you to pay all or part of your lease payments to the new owner.

Nadina Cole-Potter assists individuals, families, and business owners to build wealth through real estate.  She is a licensed Arizona Realtor® with Keller Williams Legacy One Commercial Division in Mesa and has over 15 years of experience in the commercial real estate industry.  Nadina invites your questions and challenges.  You can e-mail her at potterteam@kw.com or telephone 480-776-3280. 

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KIDS CORNER - THE DOLLHOUSE

Marissa (4 years old) entered the therapy room with her mother. She immediately spotted the dollhouse, began picking up and studying the characters and furniture, and played out a story about a mom and dad with their two children, getting up in the morning and starting their day.  This was the first meeting the therapist had with this family, and although she could have joined Marissa in her story, she used this time to converse with her mother about how therapy can be most helpful to them. Marissa was excited to return to the therapy office. The next several sessions consisted of Marissa and the therapist playing a story about the little girl character searching for lost toys.

 Marissa was in therapy because of her recent anger outbursts after the loss of her grandparent.

James (10 years old) entered the therapy room and immediately began rearranging the furniture of the dollhouse. Once he spotted other games/toys, he left the dollhouse, only to return to it later in the session, curiously beginning a storyline. Each time James attended his therapy session, he would touch base with the dollhouse and engage the therapist in a story consisting of a little boy who was impulsive in actions, usually regretting his mistakes and changing his mind about his decisions. 

James was in therapy because of his failing grades and misbehavior at school.

Christy (8 years old) chose to play chess with the therapist. In fact, she played chess for almost two months in a row during each session. Christy was on a Chess club, and was extremely bright (she beat the therapist at each and every game for two months!). During their time together, Christy and her therapist would exchange a few words, sometimes addressing how things were going at home and at school. Finally, after two months of Chess, Christy grabbed a doll figure from the dollhouse and placed it her on the Chessboard. This was practically the first time she looked at the therapist with a twinkle in her eye…. this was the beginning of her next phase in therapy…the dollhouse.

Christy was struggling with anger issues and her parents were very concerned with her behavior toward her younger sister.

Joyce (45 year old mother) and Mary (7 year old daughter) came to therapy to work on their relationship since Joyce remarried. After a few sessions of arts and crafts and board games, Mary chose to play with the dollhouse, and the room was full of giggles as she and her mother began a humorous, light-hearted storyline.  For the next few months, Joyce and Mary used spent their therapy time immersed in dollhouse play. Both the process of therapy and the content of their storyline seemed to be helpful in strengthening their relationship.

Mary was experiencing extreme anxiety at school, and Joyce became worried about Mary’s behavior toward her friends at school, her overall school performance, and her behavior at home.

The dollhouse promotes emotional expression, relationship-building and understanding, creativity, and a fun atmosphere.  Each child is embedded in some form of familial relationships, and they are with us to share what they experience within their family context, sort through family conflicts, and create hope for their future.  Once you enter the dollhouse door, you will see how magical it can be and how many exciting possibilities await you and your clients.

- Eleni Paris, MS, LMFT
eplmft@att.net

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LET'S SAY WELCOME TO OUR NEW BOARD MEMBERS

President Elect Steve LeGendre

A native Arizonan, I graduated with a Master of Arts in Counseling and Guidance from the University of Arizona in 1978 with an emphasis in Family Therapy and Agency Counseling.  I returned to the University of Arizona to complete a Masters in Public Administration with an emphasis on Non-Profit Finance in 2001.  I have been an active member of AzAMFT and AAMFT since 1977.  I first became a student member while in my graduate program.  Through the years, I have worked with other marriage and family therapy colleagues in planning local educational conferences.  During the 1990’s, I served as Elections Chairperson for AzAMFT.  Beginning in 1998 and until this year, I served as a Board Member for the Arizona Board of Behavioral Health Examiners.  I am still currently serving as a Committee Member for the Marriage and Family Therapy Credentialing Committee.  I had the privilege of serving on the Board of Behavioral Health Examiners during the implementation of state licensure. Since 1978, I have worked as a clinician and administrator in both the private and public mental health sectors.  I have worked in psychiatric hospitals and outpatient clinics providing marriage and family therapy. 

Treasurer Bernadette Sayre

For the past three years, I have been in private practice in Tucson.  Previous experience includes positions at Cottonwood de Tucson, Jewish Family and Children Service, Tucson; Centers for Women and Children (domestic violence shelter); and Southern Arizona Correctional Release Center (women’s prison) with Compass Health Care.  I graduated from the University of San Francisco with a Bachelor’s degree in Professional Studies, 1995; and University of Phoenix, Masters of Counseling, Marriage, Family and Child Therapy Specialty, 1999.   I have a general MFT practice, with a special interest in individuals, couples and families facing issues of addiction and other compulsive behaviors.

Director Dianne Gottlieb

I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice in Scottsdale where I specialize in relational problems, pre-marital counseling, divorce and step-parenting problems, parenting children with ADHD, LGBT issues.  A Clinical Member of AAMFT and a Full Member of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (HBIGDA), I am also an Adjunct Professor in the Psychology Department at Mesa Community College.  I earned my Masters of Science degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at Seton Hall University in South Orange, NJ, in 2002.  In 1980, I received a Bachelors of Arts degree in Radio and Television from California State University, Long Beach, and worked for 20 years in the entertainment industry as a film publicist for Warner Bros. and as a national television producer.

Elections Committee Chair Jane Singer

I have been with Jewish Family and Children Services of Southern Arizona for 11 years, and currently hold the position of Chief Operating Officer.  During my tenure, I acted as the Vice President of Services for Older and Disabled People, and was the interim President/CEO during the Board’s search for a new Chief Executive Officer.  I have a Master’s degree in Psychology and Counseling from Norwich University, and is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Substance Abuse Counselor in the state of Arizona.  As Chief Operating Officer, I am responsible for all agency programs involved in the delivery of mental health, refugee services and have developed several new innovative programs for older adults and individuals with disabilities. 

Student/Associate Representative  Patrick Gilliand

I am a student member of AAMFT, as well as AzAMFT.  For the past year, I served on the Spring Conference Committee.  What a great learning experience that has been!  I hope to become more involved in the Marriage & Family community by serving in a more focused role.  I live in Chandler with my wife and daughter.  Thanks to their support, this internship year for my MFT program has been a success.  My experience at Prehab’s Helaman House for adolescent boys has been a superior learning ground and a valuable resource from which to work as I enter the counseling field.  One of my main goals is to be an involved, informed, and resourceful asset to our discipline in Arizona.

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FOUR YEAR REFLECTION

By Alan Asher, Past AzAMFT President

Torch Passing and Strategies

On January 12th 2007 the torch got officially passed on when Frances Bernfeld called to order her first board meeting as President of AzAMFT.[ Frances; you are going to do super, we are in good hands.] This board meeting was the finale to our association retreat facilitated by Michael Bowers, Executive Director of AAMFT. The retreat focused on our strategic planning process now happily passed on to Frances’s administration.  We launched the strategic planning process in July of 2004.  I bought into this process “hook, line, and sinker” after AAMFT leadership training focused on strategic planning in April 2004 in Arlington Virginia.  The essence of the process is how to use limited resources in the best way possible to achieve the most important association goals.

At the retreat, Michael made the important distinction between operational planning (what we do every year) and strategic planning (taking on the most important emerging issues that effect growth and maintenance).  What emerged now is the issue of the “pipe line” in to the profession in Arizona.  Three strategic planning task groups emerged to focus on 1) Agency issues for LMFTS: how to provide enough training resources and MFT recognition in agencies to grow our presence there and to research the needs of LMFTS in these non-private practice settings, 2) Statute and Rules issues that need adjustment or change to better facilitate entry into the profession whether for students or for journey persons seeking reciprocity.  Most of this focus will be with the BBHE, 3) Explore best structures in private practice settings to provide student MFTS with internships and field placements.

Mementos of Transition

When I opened my first board meeting in Januray of 2005, I had a compass given to me by Renee Frost so I wouldn’t lose my way.  At our retreat, Frances Bernfeld gave me the book Buddhism and Psychotherapy, Across Cultures.  So now I’m in good shape for finding my way without and within.

Boxes

Now that the torch has been passed, I still have to pass on the “Presidential Boxes”.  Every President gets a delivery of the Association’s archives from the previous President: meeting minutes, official letters, newsletters, and financial data. There are VHS tapes of past conferences, as well as conference brochures and planning documents from years gone by.  When I received the boxes, I paired them down a little; now I have 6 or 7 to give to Frances.

Little Known Secret

The President of a Board is responsible for coordinating, conferring with, and leading the association’s officer group in reviewing broad policy initiatives, programs, and generally providing good fiduciary process for the organization.  In large organizations, the programs and initiatives are executed by staff.  In small associations like ours, the secret is that the Board President also has an unwritten job description.  The President is also, in practice, the Executive Director.  If an association wheel becomes suddenly squeaky, it is the untitled Executive Director or administrator within the President who must be ready to step up 24/7. So my hat is off to all of Presidents past, present and future who do this second job, critical to our association’s functioning.

It’s About The Passion of Our AzAMFT Members for Marriage and Family Therapy and the Connections We Make With Each Other

So why is that people run for and take office in our association, edit and put out the newsletter, go to strategic planning meetings between board meetings, put in endless planning hours for conferences and breakfasts, volunteer coordinate, manage data bases, do annual legislative advocacy planning and reporting, support members scaling BBHE mountains, pitch in when legislators need to be called, take minutes, and safe guard our funds?  It’s the passion for what we do: Marriage and Family Therapy and the Connections we make with each other in our process.    

I thank all of you so much for helping me in caring about: a unique, connective, multiperspective way of understanding the relationships we are born into, grow in, and die in. It’s our unique body of knowledge that reveals the meanings or our relational life cycles, and guides them with wisdom.

Board Meetings

For those of you, who have never been, plan to attend a Board meeting at some point soon.  You’ll get a good breakfast, but much much more.  It is an amazing group of people who share the table together nearly every other month on the second Friday, from 9am to noon.  These are people like you, who are supportive of each other, challenging of each other, and dedicated to our association.  These Officers have a fiduciary responsibility to all members that they take very seriously:  How to spend wisely; How to support the provision of best MFT practices to the communities we serve; How to apprehend and deal carefully with challenges to our profession; How to create new paths for growth; How to bring along new volunteer resources; How to provide the best conferences possible; How to have good humor; How to mourn losses and changes and celebrate the same;  and How to protect what we all hold so dear.  Come visit with us.  Just RSVP the President.

My Favorite No Cost MFT PR Mantra, We All Have With Us at All Times.  Let’s Assert Ourselves!

It costs nothing, but remembering to express to all who will listen: See a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  This can be done everyday in or out of our offices with prospective clients, professional colleagues, government officials,  the public at large we relate with, and of  course our own family networks.   We know that seeing just any mental health professional for issues that are primarily relational maybe unwise and sometimes dangerous.  Licensable, Professional Systems/relational training, is different by statute, and one or two MFT survey courses or technique workshops will a not a licensed relationship professional make. I’ve preached this mantra at every conference opening I have done.  In this last year, I received a lot more calls from clients shopping specifically for relational work who are concerned that they find a professional trained to do so.  Perhaps I am hearing inquiries about this because this is what I want to hear, or perhaps it is because our 370 members statewide are saying this everyday. We can message compete by expressing who we are in our relationships of all kinds. If we don’t point out what we have to uniquely offer, who will?

It’s fun to sit in meetings and introduce myself as Alan Asher, LMFT.  There are often blank expressions, so I explain briefly.  What a great natural opportunity.  If someone doesn’t understand your credentials, help them get some sense of it.

The “One Minute” MFT Pitch to Capitol Hill Staffers And Federal Advocacy Struggles

When our AzAMFT leadership visits our federal legislative offices each cherry blossom time in Washington there is need to do a quick effective sale to staffers who get innumerable visits from promoters of causes of all kinds.  So how do you differentiate MFT from all the individual models of behavioral intervention effectively and quickly?

My suggested model that seems to make the differentiation point fairly well is to do an anecdotal role play with the staffer.  I first present a scenario where the staffer is an individual therapist working with me a kid whose family has sent me to “get fixed”.  So the individual therapist works with me on anger outlets and self esteem building and some progress is made, but the family periodically complains of my explosions, and the individual therapist feels stuck.   THEN WE CHANGE THE STAFFER INTO AN MFT. As an MFT the staffer asks the family to all come in together for the first time even though it is understood that the parents want this individual kid “fixed”.  So the staffer now as an MFT sees quickly that yes the “identified patient” kid is acting out but is well assisted in this process by two older sibs who are tormenters extraordinaire. So as an MFT, the staffer in the first session does some structural negotiations with the parents and older sibs, re boundaries and respectful communication.  The parents buy in and adjust their approach to focus on the functioning of the family as whole.  After another couple of visits the sib group has, with the parents’ help, a better operating process.  And the “identified patient” is much happier.  Then it is underlined to the staffer that the individual work would always be an uphill battle because 1) the individual sessions have limited access to the context of the problem, and 2) that one hour of work with an individual doesn’t have a lot of reach outside the office in this situation versus working with the whole family that sets up a relational intervention that gets practiced every day in the family’s life.

Again this is effective in underling the difference to staffers.  But the problem with hill visits is that although you generate some positive “ah has” and ideas, the follow up required is daunting, and generally gets lost as AzAMFT leaders come home and have many other items to deal with. The hill staffers want more and more research “to make your case”, “how does this affect this group in AZ?”  “Have you utilized this other program we funded through ….?”   Some of the research questions are legitimate and some seem designed to tire the advocate out so they will go away. If you’ve gone to six legislative offices on your visit day, then the long term follow up is exponential.

So here’s my best Federal advocacy practice suggestion for our association.  Make direct in state relationships with our Federal legislator’s local office staffers.   Meet with them every other month or so.  Then the MFT sign is in place in a constant way with a person to connect it to. Then the research that will still be asked for can be complied and maintained so the wheel isn’t constantly being reinvented.  Then the leadership Hill visits would be a follow up, not a one day attempt to move the mountain.  We have 8 Federal Representatives and Two Senators.  So we would need 10 volunteers to cover federally elected officials state wide. National AAMFT agrees that this approach is best, but it takes a lot of focus to build it in the Divisions.   I’ve made some local visits.  They are not too hard, and local staffers seem a little more interested that you are interested in them, and they are in touch with their D.C. counterparts. So, do we have any volunteers for this endeavor?

So What’s Next For Me in Our Association?

I’m riding into our new frontier: Supervision Education. Our Arizona Association for Marriage and Family Therapy’s Supervision Education Community was formed with the training we provided in May of 2005.  We’ve posted the names of 25 BBHE qualified supervisors state wide, on our web site.  Now that there is some time for me to do this, I’ll be focusing on building the Sup-Ed web pages to provide the information needed to support supervisors and students seeking clinical supervision.  This is a part of the MFT “in bound pipe line” we spoke of at the retreat.  For skilled MFT clinicians who like to teach, please join our community.  The initial anxiety most people have re liability and responsibility for case loads they do not work with directly is pretty easily overcome.  One of the key reasons I believe this to be true is the serious passionate nature of MFT students in particular to” get it right” Dale Hansen deserves huge credit for sounding the alarm regarding the supervision needs of our students.  Thank you Dale.

Again, Thank You All So Much!!!

I want to personally thank all the membership for all your interest, passion and hard work which energized my work and made getting my MFT lunch pail ready each day, easy.

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THANK YOU!

Once again, we come to that time when we want to recognize good friends who have served on our Board and Committees.  While we have elected five new members this year, that also means that other members will be moving on to other things.  We owe a great “thank you” for their time, talent, and energy over the last few years, and want them to know how much we appreciate their dedication to our professional community.  Without them, we would not be where we are today.

                • Alan Asher

                • Suzanne Bloomfield

                • Anne Serrano

                • Dale Hansen

                • Michelle Blasnig

                • Renee Frost

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BULLETIN BOARD

Workshops for Youth & Families (WYF)

Building Character. Inspiring Confidence.

WYF, now in its 28th year, is a non-profit organization whose mission is to foster leadership skills in youth and build resiliency so that they may become tomorrow’s leaders.  Make your summer matter!  Sign up for a weeklong workshop that will focus on skill-building, strengthening communication, and more!  Cost is $395 per session.  All workshops are held at the Homestead Community Center at DC Ranch in Scottsdale, AZ.

Summer Workshop Dates:

                                Great Transitions, ages 10-12, June 17-22                   Essentials, ages 13-15, June 24-29

                                Building Blocks, ages 13-16, July 8-13                        Finishing Touches, ages 15-19, July 22-27

For more information, please go to www.ORHO.org or call (480) 882-6011.

 

CULTURAL COMPETENCE TRAINING

Need credits in a hurry for license renewal?  The Homestead School offers many different on-line, fax interactive, and home study courses for social workers, counselors, and marriage and family therapists which meet re-licensing requirements for cultural competence.  For example, 7 contact hours are available for Cultural Competence (No. 7701) and Multicultural Aspects of Counseling (No. 7702).  For more information, call (800) 253-0088.

 

GIVE AN HOUR

Give an Hour is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to develop a national network of volunteers capable of responding to both acute and chronic conditions that arise in our society. We are currently establishing a national network of mental health professionals in order to reach out to the U.S. troops and families affected by the current military conflicts in Afghanistan and Iraq. If you are a licensed mental health professional, please visit our Web site www.giveanhour.org to sign up for our national network and to learn more about our organization.

 

GESTALT DROP IN GROUP

St. Stephen's Episcopal Church
2310 N. 56th Street
Phoenix, AZ

The Institute has a Drop-In Group each Thursday from 7:30-9:30 pm. This group is open to everyone who would like to do some individual work in Gestalt therapy or who is interested in some exposure to Gestalt therapy. Individuals may attend once, sporadically, or as frequently as they choose. The group is always under the direct supervision of one of the Institute's training faculty members. Fee: $10 per person. For more information, call 602-955-9298.

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STRATEGIC PLANNING

AzAMFT PHILOSOPHY

The AzAMFT provides the community with a relational, contextual and systemic understanding of human behavior.  This approach transcends historical models which view individuals as separate from their context, like islands unto themselves.  This philosophy and body of knowledge respects and recognizes multiple perspectives of human identity and family structure.  The work of Marriage and Family Therapists fills a gap that is not addressed by other disciplines.

MFT’s are committed to the highest standards of ethics, education, integrity and professional development. 

The AzAMFT values and promotes lifelong learning, innovative professional practices and research.

 

MISSION STATEMENT

Current Strategic Plan Goals

The Mission Statement is the Strategic Plan of AzAMFT. It is dynamic and adjusts to the Association’s needs. The Strategic Planning Committee maintains a current working version of the Mission Statement at all times. A current version of the strategic planning goals will be published in every newsletter.

Goal 1:    Re-establish a dedicated master’s level MFT practitioner training program in Arizona, either within the State university system, or in conjunction with private institutions.

Goal 1a:  Provide Clinical Supervision Education to our licensed clinical members in order to increase the number of clinical supervisors available to supervise our MFT licensure candidates.

Goal 2:    Increase public awareness of the profession of Marriage and Family Therapy and what we have to offer, differentiated from other behavioral health professions.  This will be accomplished for example by advocacy at the state and federal levels and by direct education of the public in Arizona.

Goal 3:    Increase the strength of our association’s infrastructure (i.e. administrative support, and technical support for committees and projects).  This will be accomplished by fundraising and some by increasing our membership volunteer hours.
 

Proposal to Add a Strategic Plan Goal  No. 4 Focused on Membership Support

The Strategic Planning Committee presented its first annual report to the Board on July 14, 2006. We have learned a lot about the strategic planning process.  Our biggest success was our Supervision Education, which graduated 25 new supervisors in May to support our students.  We still have a long way to go with the following goals: * Re-establishing a dedicated MFT clinical training program in Arizona; * Increasing professional recognition of LMFTs in Arizona; * Strengthening and building our Association’s administrative infrastructure.

As the Board reflected upon our process and definition of goals to date, we had a lot of comments on issues of membership support.  We currently have a Membership Resources Group that focuses on helping students with the licensure process and encouraging people to stay the course in the often frustrating reciprocity process.  As we spoke about what we have and what we could have, the following draft of new goal #4 emerged: 

Establish a robust membership support program that helps members with a broad spectrum of issues:

1)   Membership welcome, achievement recognition, and retention.

2)   Support in obtaining LMFT licensure at all levels: Student, out of state newcomers, and other licensed disciplines who need  help getting through the hurdles.

3)    Strong engagement at the BBHE level to monitor rules, processes, and advocate for change as necessary.

4)    Maintain robust membership support and reference materials on our web site.

If you have any thoughts about the draft of goal #4, please let me know.

- Alan Asher for
The AzAMFT Strategic Planning Committee

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